Frames????

Frames

Structures of frames and why they work… via el topo…

This is something we all talk about, and it is broken down many times; however it is hardly ever thorough.
I doubt my explanation will do what I seem to understand, but it is at least an attempt to try and give more credence to the theory of frames.

First off one thing needs to be made clear, social sciences are theoretical.
Proofs are far from our reach. There are so many variables it is hard to maintain an absolute. Many ideas that are packaged as absolutes are really no more than a pseudo science.
That being said, in order to truly give something your all, you have to believe in it.
I believe that use of frames can very much define a social interaction. But I also believe that there is more than just what I put into the conversation or situation that does the work.
That being said, there is enough diversity in my use of them that shows a consistent result, and there is enough consistency in what I do that shows a consistent result to put myself out there.

Sound good???
Well hopefully.

First off what is a frame.
For myself it was a word I heard first thrown around but I never heard a definition. Within the context of how people talked about it, I started to define it.
I then learned that it is used and may very well have had its birth in the development of NLP.
Who knows, but how I define it may be different for you, so here it is…

I believe a frame is, the boundaries of how a social situation is conducted.

It is what defines the social interaction. So for instance if a frame is to be a ‘teacher frame’ it does not merely bring up time and time again that ‘I am a teacher’ but it defines that I am the teacher.
This is something that is mistaken time and time again, in terms of sexual frames.
People think sexual framing is something in which you bring up sex and somehow that ‘frames’ it.
This is not the case; a sexual frame defines the interaction as sexual. And the more creative a person is they will frame the situation as how the roles they define are played out.

So there are lots of ways to establish frames. What I will talk about here is how I do it in terms of dialogue.

What I say is by far not the only way it is a way.

Also my use of frames has no hypnotic tone to it. I think the best way to integrate frames is to actually speak like you are having a real conversation and never trying to be a stage hypnotist.
Mainly I would say that most people are more than willing to accept the frames you give them, because they have accepted them before. You don’t need to ‘induce’ them using mystical hypnotic technique. Be normal in it. Talk like you would with a friend.

But first off I define the interaction by making the idea I am getting across possible.
So most of you probably want an example…
So something like this,
“One of the things about being human is you can have two parts to yourself, you have that part that tells you that you’re gonna do it, you’re gonna give it your all, everything is going to be in order. Then you have that other side where you just want to say fuck it, just let is land where it is gong to. The thing is we’re all human, we have all sorts of ways of doing everything, but we all do everything the same.”

So in this I am not putting much out there in terms of influencing someone. But I am putting something out there that almost anyone can relate with and agree to on pretty much every aspect of their life.

So I am starting with a belief. It is a pretty easy one. It is something like, we have two sides to us, and no matter how much we try and make one dominant the other one shows itself. This may have some truth to it, but essentially it is a cold read that more than anything takes advantage of our social and cultural voids that are trying to desperately relate with people than maintaining a healthy identity. But that is a topic for later.

But cold reads can be used creatively to elicit frames.

So once that is in place I have to root that idea to the way or ways I want to take it.
I believe that if you have a frame you really want to bring to full fury you should build up a couple of them and then have them gain momentum of each other.

So let’s say next I start to build one that after that can be related to the initial frame. It is one that gives an identity to the vague human aspect I pointed out before.

So I make that identity have to do with being manic depressive, and impulsive. So for example…

“It is funny because when you were talking back there it made me think about my friend Jamie. Not that I am saying this about you, but it just sort of popped into my mind. But the thing is that for the longest time…I have known him since he was growing up, he always acted so impulsively. Actually both of us would get involved with crazy stuff but he would take it too far. I mean you know what I am talking about, right? Like for me I was someone who was always so on the edge, but I always managed to never go off the wrong side. Or if I did, I didn’t stay there long, but you always have a friend, or someone you know, that just goes for it… all the way.
But you know what I actually envy that at times, I wish I had that sort of crazy flurry and when I do it usually brings out the best in me, if I don’t let it out of control.”

Ok, so this is now another cold read that pretty much everyone can relate with and within it they are actively deciding to fall on a certain side of things. That is all intentional. I really am being super vague and I am really being specifically general. Psychics do it all the time. But here I am laying the groundwork for a type of behavior for them to act upon.
Also if you haven’t guessed, the manic/impulsive behavior is one that I don’t recommend. But it is more to get an idea of how they interact, and how you should build your frames.

So next I give them and actual frame to fit into that is empowered by this above foundation.

“ One of the things I notice when talking to you, is that your eyes wonder, and you know what that means right?”

Here, again the vagueness in combination with the above foundation should bait them into qualify themselves to either defend themselves or accept and define what that means.
This is important, you want them to do only one of those two things or even both. If they ask, ‘what you mean by that’ then string them along. Get them to jump through that hoop. Make them decide which one they are.
Then thing with framing is that you need to have them decide and actively accept the frame to be placed on them. They need to own it. It is your job to define it.

So let’s say they say, they don’t know what you’re talking about, but they are a good person and their eyes shifting was just them worrying about a friend.

So you say to that,
“No big deal, I am not saying you’re crazy, Jesus chill… I am just saying I can see that side of you. Just for a second.”

Let’s say they say something like that you were right about them, that are impulsive because their eyes move around a lot and they are embarrassed.

Then you say,
“No big deal, I totally understand, I didn’t mean to make you blush. Your secret is safe with me.”

Either way the idea is tat you define and understand that part of them.
So now you need to define it more. Let’s say you want to make that manic/impulsive state have actions of a certain type. Let’s say you want to make it have a theft style of action. So you need to give it more of a definition. You need to integrate a story to have it find a new home.

So you say,

“You know when you’re a kid and you have these feelings of wanting something rally bad. Like when you’re older they still come up, but not like when you’re young. But when you’re young you feel it more because there is no social inhibition to feel the way you feel. Like feeling is natural, and boundaries to feelings aren’t.
But when I was a six, I was in the store with my mother and she said she wouldn’t buy me a twix bar, and I wanted a twix bar. And I knew it was wrong, but I took the twix bar. In fact I really didn’t think there was anything wrong with me taking it, but as soon as the clerk saw me and caught me I knew it was wrong. But it was just that social pressure which made me feel so bad.
Like you know what I mean right… I am not some compulsive thief here…but I am sure you can relate to that in some way?
But that wanting and taking of the twix bar really had nothing to do with him, or really my mother. I mean, I didn’t know then, but he probably got some shitty wage and whether or not I took the bar his job wasn’t going to be lost. But it is that part of society that I don’t get. I don’t think stealing is alright, but killing that child-like feeling is tragic.”

So that is quite a long story, but you can shorten it.
Then you want to define it al little more on a larger level. This can all be unnecessary, but one of the reasons I am putting it in there, is because the more you can make a person feel a frame the more they will be willing to feel it where you want them to feel it.

“Like sometimes, when I am feeling dull and that urge or that ambition that just needs to get out I do something totally crazy. Like you know what I mean, we get all caught up in life and we don’t want our dreams to die. We may not be able to live them now, but we still want to pump some life into them.
So I do something crazy, like the other day at this bar I was at this guy totally drunk, and we were all sitting down, it was one of those kind of places. Anyway he was talking and talking to this girl next to him, he had just ordered a drink and put it down. My drink was practically empty and a beer. His was some mixed drink. But as he was talking I just switched his out his drink with mine. You know just little playful things.
But when he went for his drink he was completely baffled as to what happened. I got up and moved before hand. Come on let’s move over there, I can’t stand in one place too long.”

Now you have attached the idea of being mischievous to a feeling, and then that feeling an action. That action builds compliance and it will get the frame to cycle.
The more you build frames and attach them to one another them more convincing and powerful they get.

That is all for now. Let me know if this helps

el.topo.el@gmail.com

Now it is your job to show how you can use these ideas in terms of PU… but be creative, that is how we uncover new ground!

More Delusional Thoughts from the Morning

So it is again late night early morning and I am up again writing.
So I will take a break and write on my blog.

I actually just got done watching a movie. A fairly good one.
And it made me think about how I got involved in all of this stuff.
I have always been fascinated with people and humanity.
And it has always been apparent to me as to how us humans always seem to try and figure it all out.
And we never can quite get it.
You can never take the human out of us.
You can never gain the consistence we all seem to satisfy us.

There is a poet I know by the name of Anthony Douglas, who pointed out to me a while back that the only thing that we could count on about humanity is change.

He would say that people can do all sorts of things.
And anybody can do anything. We think that we are incapable of certain actions or very capable of others, but the more you live, them more you realize how similar we are to the people we think we are so far apart form.

If we limit ourselves and see each other as too separate then there is no game, there is no connection.

Believe it or not, this is something that the Ca Pimp has always seemed to point out to me.
One of the things about how that guy interacts in person is he truly tries to connect with everyone.
It is very different than other people I know who are good at this.
But there is something to be said for that.
If you go out and you try and connect to the world and show yourself and have your house in order then that is how you should build your attraction.

I think there is great merit in how we in the PU community have found to generate attraction, but often times we over look how simple it can be as well.

This is why when I teach I encourage everyone to learn the basics of a system, get that down.
Go out and push yourself through it. and when it starts to internalize do what my friend Good Carb says to do is be 'liquid'.
Take your life and let it out smoothly in a social interaction and let it come to you.

Now I am fascinated in the idea of social engineering, but at the same time I realize that there is a longer road than just a set of routines.
We need to learn to show our lifestyle to the world out there, and that is the way to getting the women in your life you want.

In any case, it is cold and I need to get back to work!

TTFN

ET

el.topo.el@gmail.com

It is late and I am talking crazy...

Right now it is 4:34 in the morning and I am taking a break from writing some of my great customer's routine stacks.

I need a break.

So I went outside and hung out in my yard for a bit.
Everything is so quiet at these times. It is beautiful and great.
It really is a funny thing, because this whole pick up thing is always such a journey. And really all of your life should be that way.
Tonight I met up with Fidelio, Shaft and Sinn.

One of the things that has always bugged me about the Pick Up community is how cartoonish everyone is portrayed. You can see it even in the book The Game, it is like everybody is this fictional character. And the thing is that game is bullshit if you can't be yourself.

Whenever I meet someone that is looking for advice they always seem to ask me about how they can mimic these people like Mystery, Sinn, Savoy, Captain Jack and whoever else, and I want to tell them...
'Yeah at first you have got to change. You have got to humble yourself and do what we know works. We have a method that we teach.
But then when you get good you need to show yourself in that way.'

You see the thing is that it is Skill Set, Lifestyle and Inner Game. So you have got to cultivate all those things to get this thing down.

The thing is that whoever I meet, it is almost a disservice to being human if I don't see people as just who they are.
Sinn is very human, he is good at what he does, one of the best int he world, but he is human.
With guys like Captain Jack and Shaft, you almost can't help but see how human they are.

But with all of our internet identities and such it is hard to see that.
People see these LRs and what we write about, but not us as tangible beings.
Don't get me wrong, I think all of us love what we are doing. It is what we do.
But that is just my point,
to be good at this thing, you have to be yourself and be your best self.
You need to be so comfortable in your own skin that you can show everybody.

May be had to believe but one of the more normal people I have met in this whole thing has been the Ca Pimp.
And one of the things in how amazing his game is, is based on how comfortable he is with his expression of self.

But in order to really convey to the world that you are someone who is attractive is that you need to have an identity and a lifestyle that portrays that. This does not mean that you need to have an identity that is full of shit, it means that you need to be the best at whatever you do.
If that is someone who is responsible for disposing of barf bags on an airplane then you need to do it with pride.
Your outlook needs to change first, then you can start learning to show yourself to the world.

One guy I know, KingsFull, works his ass off at game. And he is getting really good.
Actually there are a lot of guys getting there in Austin, Clear, Dante, and about 5 other's whose names escape me at this waining hour.
But one of the things KingsFull told me the other day, was that his career was being put too far on the back burner right now because of his dedication to game.
And he told me that if his lifestyle wasn't in order he couldn't game from the right place.

And when he told me that, it made me realize how good he is going to be at this thing.
Because what it is all about is that your roots need to be there.
If they're not, you'll just be floating away, filling an empty cup.
Your game won't be coming form you, and then what is it worth?

Just a thought.

I wonder....

This actually occurred to me while sitting at a restaurant in Miami with the Highlander.

And last night in Austin it came up again...

There is the question of, can you get any girl????

Well... theoretically, YES.

But we are still humans. 

The thing is with this, is that we can get many girls.  

If I move into a town within a week I can get a girlfriend.  There is no problem with that.

But the problem with getting every girl is that even though we are PUAs we are still humans.

And really who would want to get every girl?  Then gaming would be no fun. 

There does need to be a challenge. 

This is why I believe you need to be well rounded to be an instructor in this stuff.

To be a PUA, you just need to be one that works for the kind of women you want. 

But I always hate it when people come up to you and ask you,

"Go pick her up, I want to see...."

This is total Bullshit.  Mainly because I would just be playing flash game with her.

I would just be getting attraction with her. 

And I like sex, so attraction really is over rated. 

You need it, but you really don't need much of it to move on. 

But as I was sitting with the Highlander aka Drunken Ninja, and we were talking about this. 

If really with all the knowledge we have and if we were able to not be nervous and calibrate alright, we pretty much could game any girl.  It would be too easy.

I mean the stuff works so well.  Especially doing things like integrating frames, cold reads, and properly baiting through sub-communication.  

Some of the stuff I have been learning with the CaPimp is really unreal. 

But if I could pull that stuff off consistently then I would be unstoppable.    

So that is why inner game is so important.  If you have no inner game, and a lifestyle to cultivate that, then it doesn't matter how much info you know, you have no game.

el.topo.el@gmail.com

The Awesome Possum!

So it has been a while and I have been deluged with the world of Pick Up!

But lot's of cool stories guys.
I am in Austin right now and have been bouncing all over the place.
Last wee I gave a Lair talk down here, and I think there will be another one down here soon.

Dec 16th I will be in Boston for their Lair, doing a talk concerning body language, and to answer any questions the dudes have up there.
Doc Holiday has been very instrumental in setting that up.
Also it is tentative, but on Dec 19th I may be doing and LA/OC Lair Talk where Sexual Chocolate and gang are trying to work out!

Somewhere in there I would like to see Chicago, where Vapor has done his fair share in getting me a slot, but I have been the lazy one on that end.

Some pretty cool stories though.
Sinn, Levo, Shaft and some others just got back from Vegas.
Really good time there.

I got some pretty wicked stories, but Levo may top mine. I will leave you to decide.
Haven't written my LRs yet but they are coming.
And one is some serious badassness.
Shaft would be proud, but I will have to wait on that.

One of the new things that a lot of us are workign on is how to escalate with only things like cadence of speech (tonality is in there too), body language, and as always frames.
We are literally getting results like lays within an hour.
Sinn and I have seen CJ do it many times, but now Shaft, and Myself have gotten some consistency to it.

When I was in Vegas last I talked at length to the Ca Pimp about it.
Once I get this sort of method down he says we will have a competition.
I have been out with him in the field and he can pull it off in minutes. I know the videos have a few things in his advantage... isolation, social pressure, preselecting more pliable targets.
But in field he is pretty damn good too.
This aspect of game is supreme!
I have been noticing that once you get a really tight comfort game, you can start baiting for comfort right away.

Anyone who has seen me, has seen me do this.
It is right away.
But within that comfort baiting I am constantly stimulation attraction.
Now take that idea and throw seduction in at the same time, working all three off each other, and that is where I am going with it.

In any case, just checking in.
I have a few LRs to post and some other stuff.

Take care and you know my email

el.topo.el@gmail.com

theREDstack Testimonial

Ok so this is something that was really awesome to see!

Now as you may know that I have been doing this routine stack thing for people.
Yeah I never stop talking about it.
But you know what, when you stay up all night everyday of the week typing these things for people you'd be pretty proud of them too!

So the thing with them is that they are super complex.
They work facts about your life into a segue of frames and DHVs.
It takes the thinking out of game.
They are also about 30 mins of straight dialog.

You can read other reviews form them here
Attraction Forum Reviews
And if you have general questions about them that you would like a response to publicly or read what other people are asking about them do so here
Review Request to Custom Routine Stacks

or you can always email me direct at
el.topo.el@gmail.com

So last weekend there were two students who I did them for.
I worked their routine stacks live, because they flew me down to Austin. Always an option folks.
But the awesome thing was that later that night I hung out with them.
So we went out, and the guys were anxious to try out their new material.

I had originally worked with KingsFull at a Scottsdale Boot Camp in July.
Clear I had not yet met.
As it turns out, the use of the stack got him his first SNL.

Here is a post he put up about how His Game has just Exploded into PUA supremacy!


Here is CLEAR's Post- (in the Bold print)

Last night El Topo came down to austin to go over our routine stacks he made us in person. This resulted in my first SNL

What is amazing about the stack is that I truly believe the stories and frames it contains. For instance it talks about:
How I'm really into women that are intelligent and classy, but fun and social (force qualification)
How US culture is superficial and in some way backwards compared to european culture
How women are expected to exude sexuality.. but aren't expected to even think a sexual thought (to which they agree and start to be sexually framed)

At no point during the stack do I feel like I'm doing anything unnatural or "gamey"

When I'm in set now I feel like I'm a magnet (no pun intended on tenmag). When I start talking about a trip to europe and how the girls I'm opening remind me of them the affect is truly amazing. I watch girls go from interested.. to a state that seems like they are in a trance.

What is different is that I'm talking 100% of the time now. They try to get words in here and there (desperately trying to qualify themselves), but for the most part with this stack I am projecting such a strong frame that women cannot resist being sucked in. Before I was running stock-like attraction material and it was more of an exchange. This would work sometimes to get a girl.. usually when we had a lot in common.. now I realize that having them talk is BAD. You need to control everything in the beginning of a set and the more you control the discussion - the stronger your frame is - the more attracted they are.

I feel as though my game has come full circle. I feel like after 8 months of starting my journey I'm back where I started -- trying to start a normal conversation with women -- but without the journey.. without going out peacocked with leapard print shirts, without getting blown out in every mannar possible, without spending hours with girls just to get weak dead numbers, without running weird gamey routines -- I wouldn't be able to seduce a women by using a normal conversation. I wouldn't know how to push women away and pull them back in with Kino. I wouldn't know how to tease and disqualify myself when they have a bitch shield.

I've finally hit that point where I know I'm going to get there. I know my game is going to get to where I want it to be. I only wish I didn't have to wait until wednesday to go out again!

A routine stack from El Topo is well worth his modest price.

The thing is here guys, is that these are so personalized to fit your game that you can just sit there and be yourself, but jsut do it in a way where you almost effortlessly DHV yourself, build frames, and cultivate Attraction while doing so.
They are extremely powerful.

At first they may actually shock you, because they are so different than your typical game which is based on presenting antics and a distortion of your true identity. Here you are yourself and you are shining out to the world!

Any questions on this stuff just ask...

el.topo.el@gmail.com

One Year in the Game

Yo yo!

So it has been a few weeks over a year that I have been in the Game.
Late Oct of 2006 I took my TMM Bootcamp, and obviously it changed my life.
I remember it vividly.

It is all laid out in my post "MY STORY"
http://the-red-mole.blogspot.com/2007/09/my-story.html

At my BC I had Sinn, Tenmagnet, and Captain Jack.
Little did I know how much those three would come to influence my life.

after the BC in Scottsdale, AZ I went back to DFW.
I drove, for those of you who don't know the story.
I did it straight which really isn't that bad, but i had no money and had to get back to work.

I remember how elated I was afterwards, which is one of the reasons why I make it such a point to stay in contact with all the students I have taught.
If I can change someone's life as much as those guy's changed mine I would die a happy man.
And anyone who has worked with me, I hope that shows.

But how I really learned that was after my BC I came to know the Dallas scene, as far as PU goes.
I remember my first night out, I ran into Captain Jack. Actually I went to a place he recommended to me at BC.
The guy was a god at our BC and he talked to me and told me to open a few set, gave me feedback, and it was there that I realized at how nice some of these guys were.

So I kept at it.
I must say that if it weren't for Tribulus I would probably be out of it.
He also lived in DFW and took a TMM BC. He went out a lot.
For 3 months, he and I hit the streets pretty hardcore.

We wrecked a lot of rooms to say the least.

Then I met Kino Master. He was great beause he always encouraged me. His advice was always really spot on and I always followed it.

After about 4 or 5 months Captain Jack hit me up.
I had gotten about a lay a month and he told me to come out with him.
We really didn't do much.
At this time my game was starting to internalize and I more or less wanted to pick his brain.
I mean the guy is unbelievably good.
I watch some PUAs and think to myself, 'I can pull that off...' but with CJ, he never ceases to amaze me.
I honestly think I can never catch him.

He may take it easy for a few months, but when he is back on, it is disturbing as to how good the guy is.

But I went out with CJ about 4 nights in a row. That alone changed my game completely.
I watched him, asked him a few questions and then tried it.

It was fucking amazing.

CJ told Sinn about me, and when Sinn called for me to help at a BC I went for it.
There was one days notice.
I got on a plane and went to Vegas.

It was a really awesome BC.
I finally got to see Sinn on a different level. When he taught me again, he was like a god. And in all honesty he is one of, if not thee, best PUAs in the world.
But this time I got to go and work for him.
I really got to see the unbelievable limitlessness to his genius. I have met many academics and it would be safe to say that Sinn is one of the smartest people I know.
I got to pick up on more advanced stuff he was doing.
And then my game started to explode.

It was then BC after BC with me, I really enjoyed working with the students and they enjoyed me.
So Sinn brought me back more and more.

But then Sinn moved to Dallas.
It was then Sinn and Captain Jack who I had at my door step. this was really amazing because just watching those two you can get good.
Just reading their blogs you can get good.
The more I get out there and meet other people who teach this stuff, the more I realize how fortunate I was to have those guys around me.

At first I just thought that this was how other PUAs were when they got good, but the constant flow of evolution to their game is really unmatched.

And I have met a ton of PUAs.

Shortly after that I met Trance who I love winging with, Future who i also love winging with and working for, and a whole bunch of other dudes.

In fact it was at a BC that Tenmagnet, Trance and myself worked, was where I met Braddock. He was a student, and we were like...why it this guy taking this????
And what do you know a few months later he's coaching, then he's an Instructor!

But it wasn't till I worked a BC in LA that I realized how much I loved doing this stuff.
I got to work with a bunch of students and this time I really bonded to them.
There were 12 there and I stay in contact with just about all of them.
But it was the first time, where multiple student came to me with really challenging and diverse backgrounds and this time, I came out of there with a feeling that I changed their lives.
And it was after that, where I decided that I was going to give this thing my full effort.

You see, one of the things about me and what makes me good at teaching is that I love working with people. I always have.
And again, anyone who has worked with me has seen this.

To really give someone your all, and to pass on all the knowledge and application you know is how I teach. And to me, when you see someone actually be the person they wanted to be, there is an irreplaceable joy that make working at this stuff worth it.

Now aside form all that I like psychology, sociology and fucking. But what I have noticed, in people coming for help in terms of PU, it is mostly guys, who just want to live the life they feel they deserve.

In any case, guys always ask me how I was able to get good so fast.
And to that I say i am still learning, but I had a lot of help, and I have a passion for it.

I think by now, everybody knows I answer all my email
so hit me up. Also if you want me to come do a Lair talk anywhere let me know!

I am doing a bunch of Lair talks soon.
One in Austin next week, and in Boston in a few weeks.

Also Chicago is coming up somewhere too.


And FYI
Sinn and I will be in my home state Hawaii right before Xmas.
This Boot Camp is going to be good.
Come hang loose with us there and sign UP!

It will be an amazing time!

el.topo.el@gmail.com

Nashville then Laziness

Hey so it has been a few days since anything worth while has been put up here.
Sorry for that.

I have really had an amazing couple of weeks and I don't think it is going to stop there.

Last week I was in Nashville and gave a pretty awesome Lair talk there.
It really went over well, and I got to meet a lot of really cool guys out there.
One thing I like about the talks is that you really get to spread the word to a lot of guys out there.
Usually there is a topic, but it pretty much turns into a Q and A, which is fine by me.
The guys always seem to get a lot out of it.

But Nashville was really amazing because I was there for their Halloween Party.
It was like the whole city came out to visit.
I got to hang with some of the guys from the Lair, and some other guys who I had worked with at a TMM Boot Camp a while back.

JShine actually put me up for the time I was there. He and JohnnyAmog had attended a BC with me in Chicago.
JohnnyAmog is a musician/engineer and had his buddy WonderBoy come in from North Carolina.
I actually hung out with WonderBoy on two occasions and he's a great guy.
Game-wise the guy could be lethal, he just doesn't know it yet.

I also met a Dark, who is a really great guy. This guy has one of the coolest jobs in Nashville and I really would like to meet up with him next time I am in town.
The night of the Lair talk,
Lore and Chaos took me out, and they are two young new PUAs who are actually the new breed I see coming out.
They are guys who are mixing technique, balls, and brains into this thing.
It makes the best mix.
You have always got to be thinking in this thing.
As for Lore, it has been a while since I have had a conversation like that in a while.
You can really dominate at this thing if you apply all that intellect to this stuff.

And then there is GoodCarb.
This guy is good.
He reminds me of a more overt Captain Jack. His calibration is spot on and despite what the other dudes say, he uses pretty solid game.
The key to game is to make it not look like you're gaming.

As for all of that,
I ended up pulling at the Halloween party actually getting a port a potty pull, which would have been a great LR to post about, but low and behold, it all got fucked up.
Logistics and a few other obstacles found their way to me.

It was a good adventure though.
Always is, trying to get an SNL always takes you to places you never would have guessed.

But then I made it back home.

Here is the thing though guys.
If you want me to come do a Lair talk in your town hit me up.
Just ask me.
It is the best deal in town.

In any case then I made it to Vegas for two days, and then back to Texas.
This last weekend I spent with Kings Full and Clear in Austin.
A great time...
But believe it or not I actually like Atlanta and Nashville over Austin in terms of game.
But it was a great time, and Clear and I both got SNLs.

There is a whole bunch of stuff I am going to post here. Lots to catch up on.

Thanks
ET

el.topo.el@gmail.com

On the Road

Hey Guys,
Been super busy with a lot of stuff in the works...
Not a lot of time right now, but just wanted to pop in.

I am on my way to Austin for some real work, and I will get to posting about my great time in Nashville, Home of
JShine, JonnyAmog, Lore, Chaos, GoodCarb, Dark and more, but for now I got to run.

Also this week, there is an interesting California Pimp story.

In any case, lots of new stuff.
Can't wait to post about it.
But for now, just saying Hi!

And keep those lair talks coming!

Word

ET!